C.S. Lewis "“There is someone that I love even though I don’t approve of what he does. There is someone I accept though some of his thoughts and actions revolt me. There is someone I forgive though he hurts the people I love the most. That person is……me.”
I apologize that this article has some profanity, but it is very humbling and sobering and beautifully worded.
http://www.prodigalmagazine.com/jesus-called-me-the-n-word/